As mentioned in the previous article, not all forms of dancing in every context are sinful. We examined the parable of the lost son (Luke 15:11-32), where the dancing mentioned appeared to be celebratory rather than sensual. In that context, it was not condemned by Jesus. However, this does not mean that all forms of celebratory dancing are acceptable. For instance, cheerleaders are tasked with engaging fans through cheer, celebration, and dance, but there is no doubt that this is sinful due to immodest clothing and suggestive bodily movements.
The Bible emphasizes that modesty is a priority (1 Peter 3:2-4; 1 Tim. 2:9-10), and we must consider how our clothing can influence others (Rom. 14:23). As Jesus taught, “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery in his heart” (Matt. 5:28 NKJV). Dance halls and clubs are often filled with people dressed immodestly, clinging to their partners and moving their bodies in suggestive ways. In doing so sexual tensions rise and those involved are flirting with temptation (James 1:14-15, 4:7-8). This atmosphere leads to sinful behaviors such as lewdness, lasciviousness, fornication, alcohol consumption, drunkenness, and even adultery.
Paul clearly associates such behavior with the works of the flesh (Gal. 5:19-21). Peter references such behavior to the old man (Rom. 6:6) but is clear in saying this is not acceptable for a child of God. He writes, “For we have spent enough of our past lifetime in doing the will of the Gentiles—when we walked in lewdness, lusts, drunkenness, revelries, drinking parties, and abominable idolatries” (1 Peter 4:3). From televised dance competitions to school pageants and talent routines, immodesty and sensuality are often promoted. School dances and proms have become what many refer to as a “flesh fest,” with extremely revealing clothing and close physical contact leading to all kinds of temptation.
As mentioned earlier, not all dancing is sinful. So, what situations and circumstances would be acceptable? One often suggested example is a husband and wife dancing in the privacy of their own home. But what about a father-daughter dance at a wedding? This type of dance would not be sensual or seductive. If it is limited to just the father dancing with his daughter, we cannot immediately label it as sinful. Dancing itself is not inherently wrong; the issues arise when it involves sexual overtones, immodesty, problematic environments, and vulgar or offensive music. As Christians, we must use wisdom and God’s word to guide us in discerning which activities are appropriate for us to participate in (1 Thes. 5:21).
By: Jerrod Hammond